I’ve started this post over and over many times looking for the correct words on this one but then I looked at a list on my phone and realized that the list itself is exactly what I need to share first before I find the right words, so with one realllllly deep breath, here I go.
Bucket List: Life Adventures that I want to experience.
- Visit Australia
- Visit New Zealand
- Visit Ireland
- Visit Italy
- Visit Spain
- Visit all 50 States
- Hold a Koala
- See a Panda
- Go to a Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade
- Experience a concert at Red Rock
- Experience a concert at the Grand Ole Opry (accomplished 10-22-16)
- Have a six pack abs once in my life
- Own a house
- Make Wine
- Learn to Play Guitar
- Try out for a music TV competition
- Own a lake home
- Visit an area where there are open window ceilings to watch and sleep under the Aurora Borealis
- Stargaze from the back of a truck bed with the back filled with pillows, cushions and blankets
- Sturgis (accomplished August 2014)
- Get the word BELIEVE tattoed on my foot
- Act in a Fargo play
- Sing the National Anthem at a Vikings and/or Twins game
- Get married
- Have a family
- Start a wine group
Writing this and knowing that even one person could read this list made me nervous, not going to lie my heart was pounding and is still pounding after typing out this very personal list, but I needed to do it, because I feel it makes me more accountable then I have ever been. It makes it more real, that these are things I truly do want to experience and hope one day I am able to check off. Some more than others as I wrote them down in no particular order.
But why am I sharing the list? That’s a good question. To prove to myself I have the courage to start making them happen. You see I’ve had this list for a few years on my phone and every now and again I look at it and think “I still want this to happen or maybe this will happen this year” and then it seems time passes and another year comes and I’m still looking at a list that hasn’t happened. For example; learn to play guitar has been something I’ve thought about for as long as I can remember now but why haven’t I gone after it and just done it? Fear. Fear I wouldn’t be very good or worse yet, wouldn’t be able to do it. What a silly thought.
Fear holds many of us back from so many things and if 2016 did teach me anything it’s to begin conquering my fears. Maybe I won’t be the best guitar player in the world but at least if I try I can say just that, I tried it no matter what. Failure happens to the best of us but if we don’t at least try we won’t ever know if we can and that’s the saddest part of it all.
Don’t let your fears hold you back from what you want to do and if you fail at something don’t think it’s over, just get back up and try it again. You think electricity was invented over night? It certainly wasn’t, which should be encouragement enough to want to try, try again. I realize that not everything on this list is as “simple” as going to try and learn to play guitar. Some of them come with time and patience but as well as opening myself up to different possibilities and not turning away from something that might scare me. I have a tendency of thinking about things too much and questioning them too much, but maybe, just maybe by sharing this I’ll begin to act and not over think it all.
With all of that said, I now encourage you to write down your Bucket List: Life Adventures that I want to experience and see what you come up. Then comes the hard part, share that list with someone, I know that seems a little silly but it’s scarier than I thought but in doing so I bet it will spark something inside of you that will give you the courage to go after what you want. In one year from now I plan on seeing what I checked off this list and I’m feeling more confident at that the moment that “play guitar” will have a check next to it. My hope for you is that you do the same. Good luck with those new years resolutions but even more so good luck with all of your life experiences, because the moments, the experiences and the memories are what you should remember as we go through this crazy thing we call life.